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Sometimes I Scare Myself Book Club Questions

by Jeneva Rose

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These questions assume everyone has finished the book and contain spoilers, including the ending.

This book gives book clubs plenty to argue about because it mixes supernatural fear with very human guilt, grief, and bad choices. The characters often make decisions you might defend in one breath and question in the next, which keeps the conversation from settling into easy answers.

Use these questions as starting points, not a script. Pick a topic that fits your group, read the questions aloud, and let people disagree. You do not need to cover every question in one meeting.

Plans, Grief, and Invitations

  1. 1.Erica plans her thirtieth birthday dinner down to the minute and hates that Elias's knock is not part of the plan. How does her belief that plans make the world behave both protect her and make her vulnerable to the séance?
  2. 2.Erica uses the Ouija board from Elias's duffel bag to contact Joslyn, who spells out 'It's not your fault' and 'love you now hurry.' How does this shift Erica's grief from self-blame to action, and did you find Joslyn's messages comforting or unsettling?
  3. 3.Beckie was the last to leave the ritual slab and becomes the entity's host, leading Erica to realize they did not just let something in but invited it to stay. How does Beckie's earlier behavior—flirting with Chad, joking through the ritual, and suggesting Derek pushed Elias—recontextualize her as a host?

Choices Under Pressure

  1. 4.Zach hires Elias because Erica often says she wishes she could talk to her sister Joslyn again, but he also admits he wanted secrets forced into the open. Did you agree with Zach's choice to arrange the medium as a birthday surprise, especially once Beckie is burned and Chad and Beckie's affair is exposed?
  2. 5.After Chad shoves Elias and Elias dies, Chad tells the group 'No body. No crime' and holds them at gunpoint. How do the different reactions—Erica scrubbing the blood, Derek refusing to wrap the body, and Liv refusing to lie to police—shape what happens next?
  3. 6.Kristin chooses to stay behind with the splitting maul and pitchfork while Patrick, Hailey, and Henry escape, telling Patrick 'You're getting our kids out.' Did you agree with her sacrifice, and did the final white truck collision make her decision feel heroic, futile, or both?
  4. 7.Jake bites Blair's lip during their goodbye kiss, Maddie and Noah are killed, and Blair eventually stabs Jake's eye with the pen and kills him with the knife. Did you agree with Blair's choice to kill Jake, especially after he said he did not want to kill them but had to?

Fear, Perception, and Supernatural Rules

  1. 8.The bathroom mirror stays fogged with condensation despite no steam or running water, and Liv later claims she saw someone in the mirror before Derek is shot in the dark. What does the book suggest about whether the supernatural was real all along or whether fear and guilt made the group unreliable?
  2. 9.In Tillington, Kristin's warnings about the baby monitor, maggot-filled casseroles, and wet footprints are dismissed by Patrick and Hailey as postpartum exhaustion or psychosis. When did you first believe Kristin, and how did the family's disbelief make the horror worse?
  3. 10.Eddie tells Hailey he died in 1965 and that the family must burn the house down so the ghosts can leave. How does the revelation that the ghosts were trying to warn the family change your understanding of earlier events like the maggot casserole and the woman standing in the doorway?
  4. 11.In the cabin story, Blair finds a cursed hockey-stick pen in her bag and later believes paying for it at One Stop Shop will lift the curse. How do you interpret the rule 'Curse lifted at time of sale' in relation to Jake's accusation that Blair left him three years ago?

Community, Complicity, and Denial

  1. 12.Judi Vee's casseroles become a recurring violation—maggots in the food, missing dishes, and a fresh casserole left inside the house—and she later leads the neighbors in attacking the family. What did you make of the town's claim that 'this isn't hunting' but 'how we keep things the way they are'?
  2. 13.The Tillington epilogue introduces Connie, Jeremy, and Riley touring the renovated house, where Connie sees a teenage girl's reflection and Lanie says the previous family died in an accident. What effect does this ending have on Kristin's sacrifice—does it suggest the curse continues, or that the town simply repeats its patterns?
  3. 14.Ricky apologizes for not shutting down the truth-or-drink game, then helps Blair trek six miles through the snow to the store and is killed by Jake. How does Ricky's death affect your view of the group's earlier laughter and their choice to prioritize comfort over calling out Jake?

Comparing Guilt Across Stories

  1. 15.Across the collection, characters face cursed objects, haunted houses, and entities that demand payment or invitation. Which story—Erica's séance, Kristin's Nightmare House, or Blair's cursed pen—offered the most effective exploration of guilt, and why?

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